Archive for September, 2013

How Do You Respond To Resentment?

The 3 Rs — resentment, resistance and revenge — represent one of the most self-destructive paradigms I have seen, yet it is also unbelievably prevalent. For now, let’s focus on the first of the 3Rs: resentment. As I discuss in chapter 3 of If How-To’s Were Enough We Would All Be Skinny, Rich, & Happy, […]


How Does the Right/Wrong Paradigm Color Your Experience?

There is a set of sunglasses we wear that colors our experiences in the context of right and wrong. When considering this, I am not speaking in terms of morality, but about a person’s experience. More specifically, within this context one person is right and the other person is wrong. Over the years I have […]


Life After Death and the Road to Success

My father  passed away about three weeks ago. His death was not unexpected as he had been quite ill at the age of 90. My sisters, mother, kids, and nephews loved him to pieces and were grateful for his long life he had, the time we spent with him, and the time we had together […]